Kino: Touching Women

Kino is short for Kinesthetic Method, which is a style of seduction - or "game" - which focuses on building a woman's attraction for you via touch. For those in the seduction community, this should be familiar to you. Kino is also used a verb to mean touching women for the purpose of making them attracted and horny for you.

A lot of guys when they first start learning to talk to women focus on what to SAY. They learn various stories and bits and "routines" that are supposed to make the guy seem more interesting and worth fucking. However, if all you do is TALK to women, then there is often little tension. Tension is what gets women excited about you. And your ability to remain emotionally balanced in the face of that tension is what makes women attracted to you. A man who is in control of his emotions, especially when there is tension, in this case social tension, is attractive. Kino is one way of creating that tension, while also making a woman horny for you, so that she will want to sleep with you. And for the Feminists out there I apologize, but the point of my videos is to help guys get laid. Building a lasting relationship comes afterwards.

I used to be a really cocky guy... maybe I still am a bit.... but it used to be over the top. I had a style of arrogant humor, "Cocky Funny" as it's called in the community. These days though I'm nice and affectionate towards women. So what makes me different from your average guy who's nice? That difference is KINO. I touch women. I do so comfortably and confidently. From the first moment I approach a woman, I start touching her. This demonstrates to them that I'm a confident and SEXUAL guy. The way I touch them is the way a boyfriend would touch them. It makes them feel comfortable being with me while simultaneously creating sexy tension.

For guys who are new to this, the idea of touching a woman they don't know can be terrifying. But there are lots of socially acceptable way to touch a woman that won't turn on a warning bell. And from there once you've established a connection you can continue to escalate your Kino. When you first meet a woman, you can introduce yourself with a handshake, letting your hand linger for an extra couple seconds. If it's across a table or something you can do a fist bump, like "yo". If you're in a noisy and crowded place, you can gently place your hand on her back or arm like you don't want to "accidentally" run into her. If you do this, make sure to have a big smile on your face. You don't want to be the creepy stone-faced guy rubbing up on chicks.

Noisy environments are actually good. Maybe you can't hear each other too well, but that's OK. Your Kino is doing all the work. You're close to each other, arms and shoulders brushing. You're talking into her ear, your breath on her neck. It's very hot. The words exchanged are largely irrelevant. Just touch her with a smile on your face, then when you feel a spark, you can move her to a quieter location to get to know each other better. And just in any situation you're in, you can touch a woman to accentuate what you're saying. For example you can compliment her clothing and then touch her sleeve, and then leave your hand lingering on her wrist. Then once she has grown more comfortable with you, you can put your arm around her or hold her hand. Do this incognito so she's not as worried about what her friends might be thinking.

Once you've established a rapport with her, you can get closer, touch her more, and get a more intimate. If that's a topic you're interested in, just post a comment and I'll make a video for it in the near future.